
WHO AM I?
My identity all throughout high school was the same. I was a straight, white female who fit in and had friends and was comfortable with who I was. I never really questioned who I was and where I fit in as in my high school I was friends with people who were just like me. I grew up in a predominately white area. The only part about myself I ever struggled with was that most of my friends were much wealthier than I was and I grew up around families that took vacations to Hawaii every spring break and ski trips in the winter. I was always the friend that went along with their families and there was nothing wrong with that but I wondered what it would be like to go with my own parents. Maybe the family bonding time would have helped my mom and I stop fighting or brought me closer to my brother who was so much older than I.
I have always felt older than my age as I have played up on soccer and basketball teams my whole life. I have had to deal with coaches and miss out on the high school parties that everyone talked about growing up. I had different goals in high school than those of my peers and this was both a blessing and a curse. It got me to where I am today, wearing a Trojan jersey and learning in one of the top schools in the world, but at the time I struggled with missing out.
WHO AM I ACCORDING TO THE MEDIA
Women in sports have always been at a disadvantage. They are viewed as too masculine or scary and this is something I have seen in my life. The stereotype of women athletes is reflected in the real world as they are judged for their appearance and their body types on social media. “Too big” “She’s huge” and other negative comments are seen all across women social media platforms. Women who do things that men do are often demonized and viewed as too masculine. This is something I see in my everyday life. Nike recently released a commercial that talks about how women in sports are viewed as crazy. It normalized the women’s emotions and showed the world that they are reacting the same way a man would if he lost the U.S. open or got cheated of a Super Bowl victory. It explained how at the end of the day passion is passion and the commercial ended with “Show Them What Crazy Can Do”

The representation of strong women in television and the media is also improving thanks to people like director, Shonda Rhimes and her representation of strong women in her television shows. If people begin to see women in the workforce are behaving the way only men are supposed to, then this will normalize strong women. Rhimes has discussed how only women have the title of a “strong female lead” while if a man is a lead then he is already viewed as “strong.” Rhimes hopes to normalize this in television. We have a long way to go, but we have to start somewhere.



